I have heard the phrase “nice guys finish last” multiple times. I have often wondered why some women prefer the bad guy. Why do they lean towards someone who could honestly care less about them? Bad boys like to see just how many women they can conquer, all the while, leaving the “nice girl” in the dust.
Oh they may seem exciting and edgy. They may even look really good, but 99.9 percent of the time, the outer shell represents something very surface level and shallow.
Bad boys judge on outer appearances only. Nice guys of course, want a beautiful woman on their arm but at the same time can see beyond that and into one’s heart. After all, how many pretty girls have you met that act like bitches?
Bad boys may text you but then again, they are probably texting 5 or 6 other girls too. The nice guy actually takes the time to pick up the phone and hear your voice.
Bad boys may ask you over to their house to “watch a movie” but have never taken the time to get to know you first. The nice guy see’s nothing wrong in courting a woman. He is investing in something that in the long run will be so worthwhile.
Let’s face it, both guys and girls play games. Men have forgotten how to be men and women have forgotten how to be women. I hope that my daughter’s know their value and that my son has enough value in himself to always treat a true woman correctly.